Awaken the connection to your Soul with
gay tantra massages

Activate your sacred sexuality and kundalini energy with my Reiki and tantra treatments

Praça Bernardo Santareno 6, Areeiro on the green line 7 minutes walk from the Metro.
There is always ample parking place available if you come by car.
Whatsapp me on +351 913 364 610 and I will send you the address and map.

1. Who am I
2. Who are my clients
3. What is Tantra
4. The difference between tantric sex and conventional sex
5. The role of Tantra in making love
6. The role of Reiki after you have ejaculated
7. What is Reiki
8. How everything fit together
9. Your Self
10. Your Higher Self
11. Your Sexual Self
12 My Treatment

You set the boundaries of what will happen and what not. Guys that are more bottom prefer the prostate massage whilst the top guys prefer the pelvic massage.

I was trained by a doctor to do prostate milkings and use my fingers and an aneros dildo for that but one can never predict what will happen further. I am mainly a top, on prep and std free.

I have douche and shower facilities if it is difficult for you to prepare before the visit, but you have to inform me. I can also help you to do it if you do not know how. it is also important that you watch your diet 24 hours before the session. You are welcome to ask me in our whatsapp chat if you do not know.

I am totally private and your information is totally safe with me. I have the ability to love you despite your weight or age, kinks, fetishes, and personality. Tantra is about love, intense intimacy, honesty, authenticity and discovering who you are.

We all have kinks or things that turn us on. I respect it and that is the way you are wired and I would like to know about them during our chatting on Whatsapp. I would like to know about all your likes and dislikes as they will shape the session.

It becomes tricky when it comes to role playing as tantra is about honesty with yourself. Playing a role takes you away from yourself. Total authenticity is discovering who you really are and I help you with that.

Hygene is of utmost importance, especially if you are uncut. Please do not use perfumes or deodorants. I use coconut oil and infuse the air with essential oils that play an important role to set the atmosphere.

Before I explain my treatments, I first want to mention a few important things about my Reiki and tantra sessions.

What you can expect.

Location.

Respected Boundaries.

1 Who am I
I grew up in Pretoria, South Africa, where I studied for 15 years at various universities. I attained three degrees in Psychology and Philosophy, as well as a Master’s degree in Philosophy in 1993.

From 1989, I ran a very successful candle business, and from 1993 I built and managed a theatre restaurant, where I was both chef and manager.

In 1998, I became a Reiki master and practised until 2014, when I had my first plant journey using ayahuasca. I have done a total of 13 journeys so far, and they also include ibogaine and mushrooms.

These journeys enabled me to go beyond consciousness into a spirit world where I learned a lot about my “Self”, the world, healing, and All That Is (ATI).

This had a huge influence on my Reiki techniques, as it enabled me to go into a deep meditative state while I am fully conscious. I also experienced how it feels to be without an ego and become a mirror for others. This means that I have developed the ability to become your higher Self (unconscious self) and help you to become conscious of it.

I have learned how to use your energies and connect them to your soul through the chakras and your electromagnetic field.
All these things that I have mentioned above are supported by quantum physics and some scientific research.
Further confirmation is that most of my clients experience transformations after each session, and that is why many of them become regular visitors or even lovers.

2 Who are my clients
* You are overweight, around 60+, married (sometimes to a woman) and you would like more sex,
* You had a prostate operation, do not ejaculate or get an erection anymore. You long for love and touch,
* You need discretion, privacy and be sure not to get any disease,
* Your active sex life is empty, shallow and you are bored with loveless sex,
* You feel that there is more to life than the life you have and want to explore your potential,
* You want to explore the pleasures of your penis and/or your prostate and experience bodily orgasms,
* You want to explore your erotic zones and ignite your lust,
* You want to experience how it feels to be loved and to love without any attachments or demands.
* You are a couple and need a third person to ignite the lust and love between you two again.

Tantric massage may be less suitable for men who:

* Are primarily seeking quick physical release rather than a deeper, embodied experience.
* Are not interested in exploring spiritual or energetic dimensions of intimacy.
* View sexuality as purely hormonal or recreational, without interest in emotional depth.
* Feel uncomfortable with intimacy or allowing another person into their personal space.

3 What is Tantra

Tantra in Sanskrit means 'weave' or 'expand'. The tantric tradition is over 7000 years old and was practiced in the East as a way to activate spiritual energies through bodily practices. Tantra developed out of the realisation that much more than just physical pleasure and orgasm happens during the act of sex.

Already at that stage humanity realized that there is something bigger and beyond man that influences his life and that it was linked to an energy system that they called Kundalini. It is the life force that drives every birth of every living being into this world. After birth when all the organs have taken over and are functioning well, the kundalini energy retracts into a coil like vibration between the anus and sex organs.

Man also realised that humans have two bodies: a physical body and an astral body. (The astral body is a manifestation of the state of being called the Higher Self). The energy in the astral body is called Rei and the energy in the body is called Qi. The two bodies are connected with energy vortices or chakras.

From these discoveries tantric sex developed as an important part of human transformation because it was experienced that there is an energy exchange in the chakras between the physical and astral bodies of both partners during sex. Tantra in other words is the weaving of the energies of the astral and physical bodies of both partners. The techniques to weave involve love, intimacy, hormones like testosterone and oxytocin, sensuality, libido, movement, touch, eye-gazing and breathing. These techniques were regarded as so important that they were taught in the temples.

It is the ideal to live a life where the vortices are active and exchange energies between the physical and astral body. In our modern life with all the stress and trauma, the energy flow stops. It is not a problem as we have a very strong mind, ego and way to survive, but we do not realise that our astral body is linked to our quantum field of possibilities. In the quantum field are all the best (and worst) possible outcomes and when you are linked to your spiritual Higher Self through your astral body, you are guided towards the best ones.

4 The difference between tantric sex and conventional sex.

Obviously tantric sex is pleasurable but that is not the focus. In fact, the extra dimension of spirituality that is added to the sexual act makes the experience much more pleasurable than gconventional sex. This can be ascribed to the fact that you secrete oxytocin also called the love hormone. Because your whole body is part of making love, multiple bodily orgasms are not excluded.

In conventional sex that most of humanity practices today, the focus is the body and penis pleasure. The kick derived from the anticipation of pleasure secretes dopamine and that 'kick' becomes an addiction. This is especially the case in watching porn. It becomes so bad that some guys cannot ejaculate anymore without watching porn.

5 The role of tantra in making love

I have said that tantra means 'to weave'. Love is the tread with which we weave your sexuality, personality, emotions, thoughts, self-concept, physical body and astral body into a new form where you will receive new in-formation that will change you.

Through breathing together, gazing into each other's eyes, touching, kissing, and undressing each other we create a stage of intense intimacy where our personal boundaries become very vague. In the process we work through the chakras, activating each one. We begin in the feeling of lust (root chakra) and that leads to erections (sacral chakra). Once we reach that stage we become more secure in who we are (solar plexus chakra) in relation to each other and we begin to do to each other what we lustfully want to do. Our response of acceptance of each other and feeling the pleasure we give each other leads to an experience that gives rise to emotions of love (heart chakra).

Once we feel the love for each other we begin to say it to the other (the throat chakra) which brings us so close together that we begin to see ourselves in the other person (third eye chakra). By then we are sexually well advanced in ejaculating our whole being with the act of ejaculating (crown chakra).

This is just a general and shallow summary of what happens but many of the stages overlap or do not happen or happen in a way that we are not even conscious of. What is important is that we work towards acknowledging the love that we have for each other.

Now, the question is how can you so quickly love someone and the answer is that we are actually all mirrors of each other. I carry your mirror in me and therefore it is easy for you to love me. You carry me in yourself as a mirror of who I am and for that I love you. This does not mean that we will commit to a relationship for life, or that we use the term love to possess one another. It merely means that our heart chakras connected and oxytocin was secreted and for this moment we are the love of each other.

6 The role of Reiki after you have ejaculated

After you have ejaculated, you are drained of your life force (semen). That is why the French call it 'la petit mort' or ´the small death'. Ejaculation is the completion of the process and semen is in man's unconscious the elixir of life, the life force, the root of all possibilities.

All your chakras have been opened but it might happen that some of them was not activated during the process of making love. That means that there is not an energy flow between your physical body and your astral body despite the fact that all the chakras might be open. I use my pendulum to find the chakras without an energy flow and I then focus on them during the Reiki session. This is the time where I put you to sleep with my pendulum, slowly moving my hands over your body. In most cases men sleep very deep and even snore.

In the mirror you can see everything we do on the massage bed..... and in the corner is a double bed for cuddles.

7 What is Reiki

Reiki is a system that was developed from various traditions in the East that focused on bringing a harmony between the energy of your physical body (Qi or Ki) and the energy of your astral body (Rei). In Rei, as Plato has believed, are all the ´forms' that represent only the absolute perfection in health, wellbeing and success.

At this stage I go into a deep meditative state and become the instrument through which your ideal ´forms' are transferred to your body, your DNA, your mind and your subconscious through my hands. I have no influence on the choices but merely serves as an instrument. I do not even know what forms are transferred, but I just know that my clients begin after a while to change without even knowing how.

Your higher Self (Rei) decides what you need and where you need it. Your Rei guides my hands to the places where the transference must take place.

Reiki also work with the electromagnetic fields in your body. Your brain emit electric fields (EEG) and your heart emits magnetic fields (MEG). These fields interact with your chakras and through them emits and receive 'in-form-ation' from your higher self.

Trauma, stress, harmful vibrations from some people, the news, worries, etc. cause the magnetic fields to scatter and they are not aligned to your chakras anymore. This leads to confusion, difficulties to focus, feeling 'out of sorts' as well as physical problems. I activate them and then align them with your chakras.

Symbols are patterns of in-formation that is transferred to you body through my hands.

8 How everything fit together?

You now know what role Tantra and Reiki play in awakening your real sexual self. Perhaps it will be easier to comprehend when you understand why it needs to be done.

The chances are high that you were brought up with the idea that you are a slave to your circumstances and that there are rules and regulations you must follow, even when they go against who you truly are. When you realized that you were “different”, you started to hide who you really are and quickly learned to play the required roles. This is the predicament of most of humanity:

to be caught in a matrix of control where everybody is someone they are not and someone that is controlled as a “slave” of the system.

This has left you feeling disempowered, depressed, and without joy in your life. But the matrix is very clever and “knows” that it must replace these feelings with something it can control. To further control you, it hijacked your most powerful energies: your sense of self, your sexual energy, and your connection to a higher being.

This hijacking was so subtle that you probably do not even know it happened. In the following description you will become aware of it.

9 Your Self

This is probably the oldest question besides “What am I going to eat?”. If you consider the answers to this question throughout human history, you may conclude that we actually do not know. Your view of who you are depends on your perspective, background, and culture. Very early in your life, you were told who you were supposed to be. That is how your concept of who you are was hijacked by your upbringing, culture, and religion. These concepts are stored in your subconscious and influence up to 95% of your views and decisions for the rest of your life. Yet you have the quiet voice of authenticity reminding you that you are not actually the role you are required to play for others. This voice appears as excitement and curiosity, likes and dislikes.

The older you get, the louder this voice becomes, until you decide either to give it a place in your life or to totally ignore it. You know when you are playing roles, and you know why you play them. Most importantly, you also know that you are not the roles you play. Part of living your authentic voice more and more is becoming aware of your central core or voice that you perhaps share with nobody. It is a central theme, vibration, feeling, or mood that cannot be put into words, but is a “knowing”, a form of wisdom.

You then start to move towards groups with the same vibration, but even there your 'self' and who you really are can be hijacked by the norms and expectations of the group. You start to play the roles they require. After years and years of playing roles, you may reach a point where you have to admit: “I actually do not know who I am,” or “I am everybody and find myself in everybody,” depending on your perspective. Oscar Wilde said that to recognise that the soul of a person is ultimately unknowable is the highest form of wisdom. This highlights the view that true wisdom involves embracing the mysterious, ever-unfolding aspects of your identity and not being limited by rigid definitions of self.

So it seems we have two options with regard to yourself:
1) know that you will never fully know who you are - this option allows you to keep on evolving, following your likes and dislikes, cravings and excitements and become a new person every day. It is also important to know when you are required to play roles and to play them knowing that you are not them. You cannot be labelled or put into a box, or
2) decide who you are and follow the roles that fit into that image which means that you will play roles and stay a generic “self” for the rest of your life.

10 Your higher self

Humans have always been aware of a force, creator, or existence outside themselves as the source of whatever happens on earth. Over time, ideas, observations, and understandings of this force and the relationship between humans and this force have evolved. The main evolution was from animism (the force is in nature itself), through eras where it was ascribed to mythological figures or gods, to the formation of religion where God was the primal cause. The conceptual evolution was from nature, to gods to God.

Religion changed the force from an external force to a mediated force. God was only available to man via a church, community, or an appointed person as intermediary usually with financial and organisational implications. This is how humanity’s relationship to God was hijacked.

In the past 100 years with the development of quantum physics, quantum field theory as well as the massive increase in consciousness of the individual human being, new questions have been asked that refute the old system of religion. The focus is moving away from the church as a mediator to the notion that the individual can have a personal relationship with God.

But the change is even more radical due to all the new quantum theories. I have studied a lot of these quite extensively and have also become aware of a lot of things through channelling (the process in which ideas and information are downloaded in your although you experience that it comes from your mind).

For me there are four very important things that change how we look at the world and God. It seems that we are creating our own worlds through the way we perceive it (double slit experiment),
that we are entangled with everything (non-locality proven through experiments),
that the brain is more of a receiver as a source of information (quantum neurological experiments), and that we actually live outside time and space (facts revealed through near death experiences, people that were in comas and remember every detail, etc.)

I also incorporated the information from channelers like Bashar and the likes. This brought me to an alternative theory that explains a lot more for me than traditional theories. Tantric theory suggests that our Higher Selves are a vibrational expression of our Souls and that our Souls are actually an expression of God (or 'All that Is' ATI as I prefer to call it). You have chosen to manifest on this earth which is a planet of limitation.

Before your birth you have agreed to every detail that you will experience on earth. When you were born, you were born with the 'Awareness brain' that is connected to your subconscious mind. The awareness brain is outside time and space and is the bridge between your soul and your earthly existence. It comprises everything you have agreed upon before birth and is in the form of a multiverse that contains every possibility that you can choose with your free will.

As you grow up, you develop a consciousness that receives messages from the awareness brain but it is synchronised with the development of your conscious mind that is 'programmed' by your upbringing, schooling and culture to name a few. These programmes become part of your subconscious mind and influence your perceptions, decisions, likes and dislikes. The awareness brain brings you 'messages' through visions, images, thoughts, sounds, and emotions that help steer you towards your ideal self by giving you all the possible choices within the framework of the original choices you made before birth. All of this happens outside your normal consciousness, but it feels as if it is all happening inside you.

So, in a nutshell: you are an expression of God, and the manifestation of that expression within you is called your Higher Self. Your personality, consciousness, body, and self-identity exist within this Higher Self. Your Higher Self guides you through this limited world: you increase or decrease your vibration through experiences and the way you handle them. You then not only live closer to your original theme or purpose, but you also attract a future that is easier to navigate.

So, within the framework of reclaiming your concept of God after it was hijacked by the church, you can now start to become aware of your Awareness brain, become an observer of yourself and your consciousness, and balance it with your ego, body and experiences.

You will then become aware of it that your body, sexual experiences, development as a unique expression of ATI, are actually 'used' by ATI to experience all these things within this limited world. ATI does not have a penis, a body, a skin, lips and cannot experience ejaculation. If you live with this approach you can get to a point where you allow your Higher Self to choose the person it wants to have the next sexual experience with.

When you have a sexual experience that involves your Higher Self it is completely done in love with the body only as an instrument. When you have a sexual experience that does not involve your Higher Self it is completely done in lust with the body as the focus.

11 Your sexual self
You have chosen to be born gay. You have free will regarding how you will live out this theme. As you grow up, you discover certain characteristics in men that turn you on or off. You develop a relationship with your body, and your imagination leads you to explore the things that excite you. Unfortunately, from a very young age, many guys are bombarded with porn, especially videos that focus only on the act of discovering another man’s penis and then the quick actions until both ejaculate and leave. So most gay men’s sexuality is hijacked by the porn industry, which makes money from subscriptions, advertisements, and so on. They also cash in on the fact that dopamine addiction will ensure they never go out of business.

I mentioned that tantric sex was taught in temples in the East. The reason was that tantric sex was part of increasing your vibration, living closer to your Higher Self, and consciously connecting with it. This brings you closer to living your life’s theme to the fullest, immersing yourself in your authentic self, and living a more centred and successful life. Success is not measured by image, possessions, or money, size of your penis or how beautiful your body is, but by how authentic you are. Your kundalini energy moves through your chakras as you grow up and has a huge influence in bringing you nearer to who you really are.

Each chakra is the centre of a specific group of characteristics, and this energy drives you to experience certain things. You can incorporate it into your life and sex, or you can reject it. If you incorporate it, you can move to the next chakra, and your sexual experience will change accordingly. If you do not incorporate it, you will get stuck in that chakra and not develop further. Your sexual expression will then remain stuck there for life, unless you consciously recognise this and work on the issues.

Below is an indication of each chakra and the associated energies.

Base chakra – This chakra has to do with survival instinct, safety, vitality, ancestry, and belonging. Your sexual experience is focused on physical pleasure irrespective of emotions, connections to partners, etc. It is very much driven by hormones that can push you to do irrational things.

Sacral chakra – This chakra has to do with emotional intelligence, incorporating sensuality into your sexual experience, and becoming creative and experimental. Your sexual experience connects your emotions to your physical pleasure and you begin to control your hormones and urges and rather wait until you are with the right person.

Solar plexus chakra – This chakra has to do with confidence, self-awareness, and your capacity to assert yourself and be motivated by your passions. Your sexual experience connects your ‘Self’, who you are, your likes and dislikes to your physical, emotional pleasure. It becomes important who, where and when you have sex. You control your hormones fully.

Heart chakra – This chakra has to do with love, compassion, intimacy, empathy, and the ability to nurture and sustain relationships. One major aspect of this chakra is that it is directly connected with the hormone oxytocin, which is released with feelings of love and intimacy. Your sexual experience is connected with feelings of love and making love.

Throat chakra – This chakra has to do with self-expression, creative use of words and ideas, and expressing your authentic self in word and deed. Your sexual expression becomes a combination of making love and your creative side that explore new ways of expressing yourself.

Brow chakra – This chakra has to do with insight, vision, wisdom, imagination, and spiritual awareness. Your sexual sex becomes a way of mirroring yourself in your interaction with a partner. Through them you see and express who you are, much better.

Crown chakra – This chakra has to do with pure consciousness, spiritual awakening, and divine connection. These men have a balance between their earthly existence or ego-life and their spiritual life. Sexual love making becomes a way of connecting to your Higher Self. The focus is not the physical pleasure but how it is used to become your higher self. This usually leave you in a state of total bliss.
These men regard sex as a sacred ritual and allow their bodies and being to be used by their Higher Selves. They are turned on by vibrations, soul to soul connections and do not have likes and dislikes regarding body and age.

12 My treatment
During the tantric lovemaking I allow your Higher Self to enter my body. I feel your nature, integrity, pain, hopes, characteristics, fears, dreams and that creates the stage on which you and I dance. Our interaction becomes a dance of authenticity where there are no roles to play, no pretenses, expectations or requirements.

Through this vibration you move up through your chakras from base sexual urges to loving to voicing it and in the end when you ejaculate your are vibrating with the vibration found in your crown chakra. Through me you make love to yourself.

After you have ejaculated I use the opportunity to move very deep into the connection between your body and astral body by working through each chakra. I use my pendulum and crystals to energize and activate dormant or suppressed energies. After this we cuddle and that awakens your new self.

Slowly you start to experience the softness of your soul and identify with it. This 'rebirth' usually involves a renewed sexual awakening that leads to more lovemaking or, in some cases, to a lot of crying from experiencing the release of so much physical pains and traumas. Due to the very deep connection many of my clients also become lovers that visit me regularly.

We then shower together and during drinking tea we discuss your experiences.
You have healed yourself and I was just the instrument. It is my privilege to play this role in your life and I am grateful that most of my clients become lovers.

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